Tonight is kind of a big deal for Mr. Thrifty and me: We're going to meet a vendor!
Well technically we met with our venue and photographer before we booked them...but let's get serious. We knew we would book them before we even met them. After hearing great things about them from people we trusted, we basically had our deposit checks written the second we found out they were available for our June 2011 date.
And OK, I also kind of broke my cardinal rule of wedding planning: Don't set your heart on anything when there's still plenty of time to look for other options.
Luckily, those vendors weren't budget-busters and were totally in line with our $10,000 budget. We've grown as a budgeted couple, and promise to not make that mistake again. Or, promise to not make that mistake again within reason.
Tonight, however, could be another story. We're meeting with a Chicago-based DJ. Who actually spins. And who would be traveling 250 miles to our country wedding. And who would be providing music for both the ceremony and reception. Seems like it will add up quickly, eh?
PHOTO: Click on the picture to be taken away to the land of amazing mixes
that you will fall in love with. Trust me. Why else would I be daydreaming
about them DJing our wedding? It promises to give oodles of wedding playlist inspiration.
We have a love-hate relationship with our budget, and when it comes to vendors, we try to prepare ourselves for disappointment. Too expensive? Let's negotiate. Not willing to negotiate? Later, sucker.
But for us, the music is important. The night we met, we bonded over Mr. Thrifty's stellar iTunes playlist, and through our whole relationship, we exchanged mixed CDs like crazy with sweet, sappy love songs that really spoke to our long-distance relationship. Call it cheesy, whatever. Our lives together have a soundtrack, and we like it that way (even if a lot of the tracks were those super-lovey country songs that I secretly hate).
So maybe you see why this DJ decision is so important. That being said, we're willing to spend a little more in this area to make sure we get exactly what we want. It means putting on our toughest faces and negotiating, saving green in other areas, serving pizza at our reception (kidding)...everything that other budget brides-and-grooms-to-be have to deal with on a regular basis.
We just have to make it work and not go broke in the process. Easy enough, right? Maybe?
Have you had to negotiate with vendors to get them down to the right price? Or did you have to walk away from a too-expensive contract only to stumble upon a better (and cheaper!) option?
Keep on saving,
Hollie
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